The Life Changing Magic of Getting a Person to Change Their Mind, Even Yourself

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Change of Mind Occurs Gradually, Never Expect Anything Instant

In the article The -changing of a to mind— by Suzanne Cope, she states that the key to success is confronting cognitive dissonance, the state of mental discomfort one feels when holding two or more conflicting beliefs or worldviews at the same time. Coming to terms with cognitive dissonance facilitates what the adult learning theorist Jack Mezirow called tansformational learning – identifying and addressing our biases through action, becoming a bit more tolerant along the way.

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